Buying a sex doll might feel awkward at first, but trust me—it’s not. In fact, it’s a lot more normal and common than most people realize. Whether you’re looking for physical intimacy, companionship, or personal comfort, today’s sex dolls offer incredible realism and customization.
But how exactly do you go about ordering one?
Here’s a simple and complete step-by-step guide that covers everything—from choosing the right doll to receiving your discreet package at your door.
1. Understand Why You Want a Sex Doll
Before you click “buy,” take a minute to ask yourself: Why am I getting a sex doll?
Your answer will help you decide on features. For example:
For intimacy: Look for full-sized realistic dolls with soft skin, natural curves, and body heat options.
For companionship: Consider a more lifelike face, customizable voice, or even AI features.
For fantasy: Explore dolls with anime faces, cosplay bodies, or fantasy proportions.
There’s no right or wrong reason—it’s all about what works for you.
2. Choose the Right Material: TPE or Silicone?
The material you choose affects the feel, maintenance, and cost.
TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer)
Feels very soft and skin-like
More flexible and jiggly
More affordable
Needs more frequent and careful cleaning
Silicone
Slightly firmer but more realistic detailing
Easier to sterilize
Longer-lasting
Usually more expensive
? If you're a first-time buyer, TPE is great for affordability and softness. But if you want easier cleaning and durability, silicone is a solid investment.
3. Find a Trusted Website
This is the most important part. There are many scammy sex doll sites out there. A genuine store should have:
Real reviews from verified customers
Clear contact info and support chat/email
Transparent shipping and refund policies
Real, high-res product photos (not copied from Google)
Trusted sellers include:
✅ The Doll House
✅ SexyRealSexDoll
✅ WM Doll official partners
Check Reddit forums or doll communities to confirm if a store is legit before buying.
4. Customize Your Doll’s Look and Features
This is where the fun begins.
You can usually customize:
Height and weight
Bust, waist, and hip sizes
Skin tone
Eye color
Hair style and wig
Breast type (hollow, solid, gel-filled)
Vagina type (fixed or removable)
Feet type (standing or non-standing)
Skeleton (basic or EVO/flexible)
Some sellers also offer:
Voice/sound modules
Movable jaws
Heating systems
AI chatbot integration (premium dolls)
Take your time here. The more you personalize, the closer she’ll feel to what you’ve imagined.
5. Place Your Order Safely
When you’re ready, add the doll to your cart and go through the checkout process.
Payment options usually include:
Credit or debit card
PayPal (on some sites)
Cryptocurrency (for privacy)
Bank transfer
Make sure:
The website uses a secure connection (HTTPS)
You receive a confirmation email
They offer tracking once shipped
? Don’t hesitate to message customer support if you have questions before paying.
6. Wait for Production and Delivery
Most dolls are made to order, not pre-packed. Here's what to expect:
Manufacturing time: 7 to 14 business days
Shipping time: 5 to 10 days via UPS, DHL, or FedEx
Tracking info: Sent by email once dispatched
Discreet packaging: Plain box, no markings, no mention of what's inside
Nobody—including delivery staff—will know what you’ve ordered.
7. Receiving Your Doll: What to Check
When your package arrives:
✅ Open carefully—don’t use sharp blades too deep
✅ Check for damage during transit
✅ Assemble head, wig, and accessories
✅ Clean her thoroughly before first use
✅ Store her properly in a flat or standing position
Most sellers will replace damaged parts or fix major issues, but you’ll need to report within 48 hours.
8. Learn How to Take Care of Her
Caring for your doll makes her last longer and keeps everything safe and hygienic.
Cleaning Tips:
Use mild soap and water after each use
Clean internal areas with a vaginal irrigator
Let everything dry completely
Use baby powder or cornstarch to reduce stickiness
Storage Tips:
Lay her flat or hang using a hook system
Avoid storing in extreme heat or direct sunlight
Keep her away from dark or dyed clothing that may stain
With good care, your sex doll can last 5+ years easily.
9. What If Something Goes Wrong?
Reputable sellers offer:
Factory photos before shipping (on request)
24–48 hour damage claim windows
Email/chat support
Warranty options for internal parts
Make sure to read their return/refund policy before placing an order.
Conclusion: You’re Not Alone in This
Ordering a sex doll is a deeply personal experience—but you’re not the only one doing it. Thousands of men (and women!) around the world order them every month for many different reasons. It's not weird, it's not wrong—it's your choice.
All you need is:
A clear idea of what you want
A trusted seller
Basic care and safety habits
Once your doll arrives, you’ll realize it was absolutely worth it. Whether you're buying for companionship, fantasy, or sexual health, it’s your body, your space, your decision.